Am very sure a lot of women would be wondering why i would want them to make friends with another woman competing with them/trying to take their man away from them.
We all care, even those one that would tell you ‘I don’t care what he is doing with his extra time or am all about my career, my kids and building myself’ let be truthful, we all care. It might just be the level of our concern that differs from each other.
What exactly am I talking about?
Some love football (soccer)
Online game (play station)
Hanging out with friends
Spending time in the bar
And so many other activities that I might have skipped or didn’t remember.
To my wonderful ladies out there
Yes most of us hate football
but why we can’t take a little time to make researches about football and just surprised him one day. Ask him to invite his friends over, make snack for them and get involved watching with them. Even make little remarks about the game and watch him smiling in surprise. Other times you can arrange with other wives/girlfriends and make it a date or go to the viewing center with him and support what he loves.
This is applicable to any other games he loves.
Am going to also talk about spending time in the bar/friends
If they want to have alone time with friends and just catch up on old times, then trust him to have fun with his boys. Other times you can suggest going with him to make him feel that support of his woman.
If you don’t like the bar, go with him few times, then create a small bar for him at home if you guys don’t have one. Most times it’s the environment that attracts them and if you find this really not your thing, we are women and know how to make them love things. You can create a little picnic for him at home (carpet picnic) or outdoor picnic with his favorite wine and ready to make him feel the same way with what he loves before.
So there you have it ladies let’s make friends with the other woman not the other woman (winks)