It’s Valentines Day and am sure all my readers are having a good time with or without their family or that special one. I decided to grace my day in the presence of God, and celebrate valentines by praising him.
The speaker gave a very deep teaching on what a woman & a man really wants. our needs/wants varies but generally there are some factors that is major and common to us all as human. so to make your evening calm, i decided to share what i learn today with you my readers and i hope you will learn one or two things from it.
PROVISION FOR THE HOME/FAMILY:
It doesn’t require billions, or needs to break the account but it has to cover their needs. Make your family / home your priority and see how peaceful you would be.
FAITHFULNESS AND TRANSPARENCY:
let your woman see through you. Let your yes be yes and your no be no.
A MAN THAT LOVES GOD:
A man that loves And has the fear of God, will always find it easy to commit in his doings. It will bring easiness in praying together, going to his presence together. Be it a Christian / a Muslim their is happiness in togetherness to the house of God. when a man is after God’s heart, his woman will ignore his errors and focus on his commitment.
A MAN THAT LISTENS:
The strength of a man lies in his muscles but the the strength of woman lies in her tongue. Don’t ignore any words coming out of her mouth. Don’t call her words foolish because if you listen carefully, your way out of any difficulty will come out of her mouth.
A MAN THAT IS AVAILABLE:
A woman wants a man that is available no matter how busy or tight your schedules are. Make time out of no time for her and the family. “if i don’t go out to work, we won’t eat” are you working in the middle of the night? If no create like 30 mins and talk about silly things till you both fall asleep in each others arms. Do you work on Sundays? After service / prayers on Sunday what is stopping you from having a moment together? be available.
A MAN THAT CAN LEAD:
lastly every woman wants a man that can lead. Being timid shouldn’t be one of your qualities. Conquer your fear and be a leader. Be a man that takes the lead and defend his family.
7 THINGS A MAN REALLY WANTS
A WOMAN THAT SUBMITS:
‘submission‘ no one is talking about slavery here please don’t misquote anything. The holy book says “wives submit to your own husbands and husbands love your wives” A man does not want a boss at work and a boss at home too. Without submission and meekness you can’t get to his heart and get whatever you want from him. This is a great factor a lot of women don’t understand and a lot of men misunderstood.
A WOMAN THAT HELP AND SUPPORT:
Any woman that gives true support and help to her man earns his love and he values her. Whenever he wants to do anything like project, financial stuffs try and support no matter how small. ” it is the responsibility of a man to provide and it is her’s to support in anyway” sometimes and most times through prayers, sweet words that would lift his spirit.
A WOMAN THAT ACCEPT HIS FAMILY:
Accepting his family will bring you closer to him and know more about him. It brings closeness with you and them. “some find it easy to connect with in-laws why others do not” that’s why it is good to take everything into prayer before going into something serious for life time.
A WOMAN WITH BEAUTY:
This is a little bit tricky but let’s get it simple. Let’s be honest, there is always and will always be a force of attraction that draws him to you. Love is natural and it is accompanied by something he sees in you. It doesn’t mean a part of your body alone, it might be a character, a talent, something you are good at that makes him choose you over others. Don’t loose your force of attraction because there is a baby or there are children Now. Rekindle the spark every time. Don’t look old when you are young, package your force of attraction. He loves you for who you are and it is greater and more fun when you make him eager to come home every night to you.
A WOMAN THAT SATISFIES HIM SEXUALLY:
This you should be an expert / judge of your own styles or ways of making it up. No one will teach you how to satisfy your man.
A WOMAN THAT APPRECIATES:
No matter how small, please learn to appreciate it and make him feel good. Appreciation encourage him to do more. Let him know and feel you are contented. Don’t compare him to others.
A WOMAN THAT KNOWS HOW TO MANAGE THE HOME:
Here we talking about hygiene, cooking, cleaning and putting the home together. Men are naturally disorganized and it is our duty to put all in place. He is the head, we are the neck. He won’t shove his head in a tree or a rod, the head needs the neck. He is the roof, you are the foundation. The house needs a foundation. Supporting in one way or the other from the man is highly appreciated. If you have cook, help, ensure they put everything in other.
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Wishing you all a wonderful Valentines Day