LADIES BEFORE YOU GO TO BED WITH HIM !!
Before you get down with him, Before you jubilate about how big the fish you have caught is, Before you start to orchestrate how to milk money out of him, Before you start thinking of the different ways to hold him down, Before all the unnecessary things that you think makes you a big girl, which includes him because he is an accessory that adorns you, woman
kindly ask yourself about these 10 things;
do you think this pregnancy will hold him down?
Is this man ready to father a child?
Are the material possession you hope to get from this chairman worth the risk of your life?
Peradventure he falls in love with you and proposes, will you walk away like you have always being, saying you still have much fun to catch?
This is to the so called happening babes, Queens of Heartbreak
Will you settle to suck him more of his money and other possessions and afterwards divorce him?
The strategist of life who wants her kids to emaciate from a broken home.
Are they worth your future?
The girls you want to impress,
the clique you want to join that requires you throw out your modesty as a woman and turn ‘very good bad girl’,
are they worth your future?
Would they be there when you are nursing STD s or STIs?
If eventually you get pregnant and you were unable to terminate it
Would you be proud to carry that bulging belly around?
Would the guy take up the responsibilities?
Would you not hate the child all your life for coming at a wrong time, forgetting you sowed the seed for his/ her coming?
Or you are just grooming them for child support money?
More importantly when you put to bed
Are you ready to be a single parent if he rejects the child?
The supposed wealth you amassed from him, would it be enough to cater for you and the child all through your lives?
Will you be ready to explain to your child how his/her father is not in their lives?
Will you be sincere enough to say you wanted to play smart and not tell him/her you were a victim of circumstance?
If you fall in love along the way what is your hope
Remember Karma is a smart bad thing
After the cooking, cleaning, sex…calm down, don’t worry you will bag the side chic title
Miss Player, your aftermath is way too close.
You own your life don’t you?
but remember you have parents too, whether they are of substantial value or not, acting their responsibility or not,
will you be proud when they lay their eyes on you with that beautiful growing gift in your tummy you just made disastrous?
Will they be happy that you are giving them a grand child?
Remember that young girl that looks up to you
Remember how happy she was to see you and run errands for you, a sibling, cousin, neighbor, church member,
will you love to hand your life over to them?
This same life you living?
At the end of the day, sitting down and taking a look at your life
will you be proud you had a kid with that man?
won’t it be your worst mistake ever?
Will you not mind to do anything to take away that time of your life just so you won’t experience the hurt and disdain you are feeling at that moment?
Are you ready to put a hold on your dreams and aspirations
to raise a child?
Will you not blame the child and put out every frustration on him or her?
Are you ready to settle for whatever comes after that?
With the right person, at the right time, it will come with bliss especially when it is laced with friendship and love but if not sweetheart, ABSTAIN and be on the safe side!!! That aspect of life is life itself, it is life inside life, so don’t rush especially with the wrong person.
composed by Micheal ‘BOBBY’
edited by sheydeahqb