This morning was on instagram, i came across a picture post with caption this is one of the serious problems in relationship. When i looked at the post the first thing that came to my head was misconception and addiction.
What is misconception? it is a view or opinion that is incorrect because it is based on faulty thoughts, misunderstanding and assumptions.
What is Addiction? in this case it is a fact of being addicted or used to doing a particular activity.
In the post it was bed time, the husband was ready to sleep but the wife was busy with her phone laughing hard
This days we are so addicted to our mobile phones that it doesn’t even give room for proper communication. You will hear things like ‘sweetheart please can we chat on whatsapp? It’s because the call just stopped him or her from their activities on the mobile phone.
Mobile communication has really ruined a lot of good relationships. For instance you just texted her about something, she stared at her phone for seconds to be able to get or read meaning to the text. He/she just want to try and put an expression to that message but in the end it might be the wrong expression or meaning and that misconception.
Mobile communication is good don’t get me wrong but too much of everything is bad. Sometimes the oral form of communication is the best way to solve problems. You both sit down, talk, see the expression on each others faces, this would bring out the real feelings unlike you both stuck in between service provider and a force carrying the message to each other through technology.
We are all addicted to our phones ‘yes’ it helps us in so many ways but when it comes to our relationships, feelings let make out time once in a while.
It’s a pillow talk morning
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